1.) I am heavy into drugs;
2.) My wife and I were taking LSD to see if we can produce a normal child; and
3.) When Lee Stephanie (sic) was in the grandparent's care, Mr. Barr would take her away when he would notice that they were enjoying her company.
Mr. Barr's mother died when he was 14 years old. His father died four years ago of a heart condition (quoting Mr. Barr). Allegedly, Mr. Barr emotionally abused his first wife, Juliet Habsburg-Bourbon (sic) in the same manner that he allegedly abuses the child (interrogation, accusations, yanking, pinching, poking, and hitting). Mr. Barr was in the Air Force for four years and was stationed at Lackland in San Antonio. He has three years of college and took courses in pre-med psychology. Presently he works as a carpenter and helps his wife teach communication skills seminars. Allegedly he and Norma attend the Unity Church of Positive Prayer.
The patient's step-mother, Norma Barr, is a white female approximately 44 years old. She has been divorced once. She has two children. Her oldest son Chad is 20 years old and her daughter Shea is 18 years old. Her ex-husband is the dean of ________ in Clarendon, Texas. She has been married to Mr. Barr since 1979. She has a Ph.D. in communications skills and teaches seminars in stress reduction. Little is known at this time about her early psycho-social development or anything other than the facts already stated.
The parents were slightly anxious people as they came to my office. Mr. Barr is a bearded white male who was quite tall and muscular. Mr. Barr was directed by his wife throughout the interview into what general areas she should talk about. As an example, his wife told him to start the interview by relating to me the early childhood of Lee (sic). He did this in a very detailed manner.
He stated that he and his wife had married when he was living in the northwest and attending the University of Oregon. They had the child after two and a half years of marriage. He stated that the child was " always strong willed" and if wasn't until she was 18 months old that he realized that she cried and tantrummed when she didn't get what she wanted. He stated that the only way to stop her tantrumming behavior was to put her crib and shut her door and let her cry herself to sleep, or to give her what she needed. He preferred the former method. He stated that he and his wife had great difficulty in their relationship and had several separations before they were divorced. They came back to Austin and finally divorced here. The child was given to the mother and remained with her until age 4. The father states that the mother had multiple boyfriends and that the child slept in the same bed while the mother had sexual intercourse with these several boyfriends. He then described the child's natural mother as being "crazy"and described her fascination with witchcraft. He stated that she tried to drill a hole in the front of her head at one time and that she also put a very large bell on her right ear and ripped her earlobe. He stated that he thought she was doing "drugs and that these were causing her to become crazy." I asked him about the family history of the mother and he statd that her mother was living in San Antonio with 8 dogs and in his opinion she was also crazy. He stated that his first wife's father was an internist in New York who many times would abuse his first wife. He stated that even when she was an adult he would spank her across his knee when she was nude. He did not elaborate on this. He stated that at the age of 4 years the patient was taken to his parents' house in Vernon, Texas by her mother and left. He said that the mother told his parents that if the did not take the child, she would start ringing doorbells until someone would. He then stated that he did not even know this had happened for 2 1/2 months. He was not able to give an explanation about why he had not kept up with the whereabouts of his daughter during that time. He stated that after his father died he had remarried, his present wife, and he sued of custody of the child. The case was settled out of court with the stepgrandmother giving custody over. He stated that ever since the child had been in their home she had been a problem. She is described by him as being extremely manipulative, always wearing a happy face but being very angry. He did not describe his own feelings about the child but did give an objective description of the child's behavior. He tended to lump the child's behavior into bad and good character and did not give my any insight into why she is the way she is. Rather, he stated that there was something wrong with the child and that it was he who was the abused person and not the child. He denied abusing the child except for one spanking incident which the child had reported to the school.
Norma Barr was a meticulously dressed, silver haired lady. She gave a very detailed account of her feelings on family life and also her feelings that rules are made to be followed. She stated they did not allow the child to watch soap operas or the t.v. show "Dallas". However much to her dismay the child would not follow the 17
When I mentioned the possibility of placement the parents were very supportive and stated they wold do whatever it took. They were also receptive to permanent placement of this child.
